Chix Chat

November 30, 2008

m - 11 september 2001

Filed under: from-michele, guys

From: Michele
Sent: Tuesday, September 11, 2001 8:01 AM
Subject: hope today is better for you!

Hi Anne!

Sounds like you had a rough Monday!  HOpe today is better for you!  I had a Garfield tee-shirt that said "I don’t do Mondays".  I hate it when I wake up late!  It ruins my whole day.

I showed Danielle Darrell’s picture.  She asked me, "Oh, so does Anne like bald guys too?"  I said, "Not exclusively!  And neither do I!"  Its not like I drool over every bald man I see!  Only a few (Arnold, Mitch, produce Bald for example).

Yeah, what’s up with that guy from Austrailia writing with you.  After all, you did say "local".  Last time I checked, Australia wasn’t exactly across the street from Huntsville!  I mean, unless he’s planning on moving to Alabama, I don’t see how a long distance relationship, any long distance relationship is going to work.  I don’t want to bring you down, I’m just trying to be realistic, as I’m sure you are.

that shmoe on 10k4awife was a total loser!  I’m sorry but that is just so unromantic!  Think about it, years later people ask "so how did you and your husband meet?"  "Well, actually a friend of mine introduced us and my husband paid my friend for it."  Ugh!  It just sounds like this guy is lazy- wanting other people to do his work for him.  Well, good luck to the poor shmoe-ette that ends up with him!

Amanda and Paul are 22.  A very immature 22 I might add.  Do you know what makes me really angry and frustrated?  The fact that if they would break the engagement, she would probably be dating within a month and here I am waiting…. and waiting…. and waiting…

Embarassing story!- yesterday I went to the mall with Shelly.  Afterwards we went to a Japanase resturant (more about that in a minute) anyway, I went to the bathroom and discovered to my horror that my pad had shifted and I had this huge period stain on my jeans!  Thank God my shirt was long, but I was still mortified!  I told Shelly and she said she didn’t notice anything.  Shoot!  as soon as I got home, I threw my jeans in the wash.  I hope that stain comes out!

Oh!  the japanase resturant was so cool.  They cook the food right there in front of you. It’s very entertaining.  And the food was excellent.  I had shrimp and scallops with vegatables and fried rice.  YUMMY!  I also had a geisha girl drink (well, the nonalcholic version of it) its orange juice, strawberry juice and seven up.  that was really good. 

Yes, Ireland!  Well, I’ll tell you how this came about.  I met Ingrid (my friend who I am going with) back in 1998 through the pen-pals section of Writers Digest Magazine.  She responded to my ad which mentioned I love Celtic music.  She does too, and she is also a writer like me.  She’s a children’s author.  Anyway, I had mentioned it was always my dream to go to Ireland and she was like "I would love to go to Ireland with you."  so we planned it for 1999, but that fell through, then we planned it for 2000, but that fell through, and so on.  So in August she suggested that Danielle me and her go to the Trapp Lodge in Stowe, Vermont next year.  I thought it was a good idea and I half joked "are we ever going to go to Ireland?" and she suggested 2003 for Ireland.  THen she asked me if I’d rather do Ireland next year and do the Trapp Lodge in 2003.  Well, of course I said Ireland.  It’s really going to happen this time!  And do you know what’s really special about it?  I will be in Ireland for my birthday!  WOW, what a birthday present!

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just a suggestion-

for reccomendations and funny moments- I think we should now only do this if we think of something.  My brain is kinda fried!  Also instead of funny moments, how bout favorite moments from tv and movies.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be a funny moment.  What do you think?

Talk to you later!  Take care and God bless!

Michele
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"I am alone…..
no….
I am utterly alone.
By the time you have read this, I will be gone, having jumped…..
no…
having plummeted off the winter river bridge."

Lydia Deitz’s (Wyona Ryder) halariuous suicide note in Beetlejuice

November 26, 2008

a - 10 september 2001

Filed under: from-anne, guys

From: Anne
Sent: Monday, September 10, 2001 4:07 PM
Subject: Must be Monday!

Hi, Michele!

What a Monday I am having! I slept right through my alarm so I didn’t have time to wash my hair this morning. I worked both days this weekend and I was so tired yesterday that I went to bed about 9:15 pm. Then for some odd reason I couldn’t get to sleep.

Yep, that’s Darrell. If it was a shot of his face you could see how his ears really, really stuck out, but I think that newspaper pic is okay. I believe it was taken in August or so of last year. Like I’ve said before, I think I found him so attractive because he was a nice guy with a lot of good personality traits - smart, fun, positive, etc - going for him.

Depressed Sigh. Onto more men matters, no I haven’t had any more responses to my "ad." I feel like I can take it or leave it; maybe I’m so casual about it because I don’t really expect anything and I’ve already been a member of that site so I kinda know how it works. I still haven’t written to that Australian guy. (It’s okay; in my comments box I put that it might take me a few days, but I will write back.) I plan to send him an equally short note telling him to check my stats on my site profile; his site profile doesn’t have much info so I’ll ask him for more info. I don’t know why he would be interested in me; I asked for someone local and he is in another country, for Pete’s sake!

Speaking of schmoes on the Net, what about that 10k4awife guy? For some reason, when I looked at that site, I kept thinking, "It is a scam!" Or maybe he’s trying to do his own version of The Bachelor. (If that’s the case, he’s going to have to come up with a lot more cash!) Talking about The Dream versus *So* Not The Dream: imagine telling your friends, "I’m pimping myself out …. er … getting married, that is. What can I say: the price was right!" I liked your "he comes to check you out and you both see each other and just click and live happily ever after" much better.

That Amanda/Paul situation sounds like a huge mess. My mom and I were just discussing this weekend how marrying the wrong person can literally ruin your life. (Ray’s name and situation came up a time or two.) Along those lines, marrying someone less than the one you love can also ruin your life. Like you said, given how Amanda is acting, why in the world is she engaged to that guy? And why is he putting up with her cheating? They both must have major issues and that does not bode well for their marriage. How old are Amanda and Paul?

I’m glad you had a good time at the concert. (With a name like "Alabama" it has to be good! (lol) ) I bet that Oct 20 show will be great! Jo Dee is da bomb!

You might be going to Ireland? WOW! How is that going to happen?!?
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tv show- Different Strokes (loved Full House)
movie- Beautician and the Beast (haven’t seen Beaches but it’s on my list)
song- Stronger by Britney Spears(like Kansas)
cd-

funny moment- from Friends, the episode where Jean Claude Van Damme was one. Joey had been trying to get a part in the movie that JCVD was filming - something about a terrible disease spreading through NYC. As the ep was going off, they showed a clip of Joey as a sick/dying patient on a gurney being loaded into the ambulance. JCVD was supposed to say "Can’t you see what’s going on? This man is dying." And then the ambulance guys would put Joey into the ambulance. But Joey just couldn’t do a believable sick person act. Finally they change JCVD’s line to "Can’t you see what’s going on? This man is dead." And Joey just has to be covered up with a sheet. (love that Perfect Strangers ep!)

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That’s it for today. Talk to you soon! God bless!
Anne

November 25, 2008

m - 09 september 2001

Filed under: from-michele, guys, feelings

From: Michele
Sent: Sunday, September 09, 2001 9:26 AM
Subject: finally!

Hi Anne!

So, that’s Darrell?  Finally!  He isn’t a bad looking guy. I can understand your attraction to him.  I mean, even though it wasn’t a really good picture of him, he just looks like a nice guy.  I’m sure he looked a lot better in person.  You looked so different with your hair long.  How long ago was that picture taken?  I wish I had a picture of produce Bob to send to you!

Yes, seeing Jurassic Park in the theatre is quite an expirenance!  Yes, that was Sam Neil who played Dr. Grant.  I know he’s older, but I honestly don’t care.  He is so handsome!  I first took notice of him in the original Jurassic Park.  I thought "Oh my!  Who is that good looking guy?"  I kept my "lust" for him a secret for a few weeks before revealing it first to Danielle, then to my mom.  I’m always like that.  I won’t reveal right away when I like someone new.  IT’s almost as if I’m ashamed to tell anyone.  I look back now and wonder, how in the world could I be ashamed to admit I liked Sam Neil?  or Mitch Pileggi?  or ARNOLD VOSLOO!
Shame on me for not shouting it to the world!

You haven’t seen What Lies Beneath yet?  Rent it!  Watch it!  It is an excellent movie.  Harrison Ford is in it!  What more motivation do you need?

Yesterday I had another one of those "I’m lonely, I’ve got my period and I’m very emotional" crying jags.  Danielle was telling me about one of her co-workers, Amanda and that added to my despondant mood.  Amanda is engaged to Paul.  They live together.  From what Daneille tells me, Paul is a "nice guy."  Hmm… maybe too nice.  Amanda called Paul and was screaming at him about something, calling him names and everything.  You think he would tell her to f*(K off, but no, he doesn’t.  Also, Amanda cheated on Paul with Patrick (who used to work at ***** with Amanda and Danielle), and Danielle is sure she is also messing around with Ryan, another ***** employee.  Now either Paul is totally oblivious to her cheating, or he accepts it.  It has to be the latter.  I mean, when your fiance is coming home at 3 in the morning, you have to suspect something!  I said to Danielle, "Its so unfair.  Not only is she engaged, but she treats her fiance like crap and she’s cheating on him!  And here I am, alone, and I would treat a man so good!"  And Danielle told me half the time Amanda acts like she can’t stand Paul.  "SO WHY THE HELL ARE YOU ENGAGED TO HIM?"  I want to scream!  I honestly don’t think they’ll end up getting married, after all they’ve been "engaged" for over a year and have yet to make any wedding plans, but if they ever do get married, it will be a colossal joke.

Have you heard from that Australia guy again?  Have you gotten any more responses from the ad you placed?  I’m still thinking about it.  What is wrong with me?  I mean, I cry and complain that I haven’t found my soul mate yet, and yet I’m afraid to do a simple thing like place an ad online!  I just don’t have peace about it, and I have to wonder, is it God protecting me, or is it just me and my silly emotions?

Danielle has known Brian for about a month.  They work together.  He works in maintainence and he also owns a rug cleaning business with his father.  Last night Danielle and I were talking and I said, "So is there anyone else who works up there who is single?"  Danielle mentioned Bill, who is the head of maintainence and works with Brian.  "He isn’t bad," she said.  She described him as being in his middle thirties, brown hair, medium build and glasses.  So in my frustration I blurted, "Well, why don’t you tell Brian to mention to Bill that you have an older sister who’s single?"  I mean, I know this guy has to be decent looking because my sister knows me and she wouldn’t set me up with a "dork"  And I know this might be "taking matters into my own hands" so to speak, but what else am I to do?  Ok heres me and my imagination.  Danielle doesn’t even say anything to Brian.  Brian tells Bill on his own about me. (I know Danille has told Brain that I’m single and I work at *****).  So Bill decides to go into ***** and check me out.  He walks in, our eyes lock and were floored by each other (Of course I have no idea that this is Bill because I’ve never seen him before).  He walks over to me and we begin to talk, almost as if we’ve known each other forever….yadda yadda yadda … and they lived happily ever after!  Ok, I know that most likely isn’t going to happen, but a girl can always dream, can’t she?

Last Night Danielle, Shelly and I went to see Alabama and Yankee Grey.  IT was a good show.  I had a really fun time.  Also on October 20 I’m going to see Jodee Messina, Rascal Flats and Cyndi Thompson.  That should be a good show!  I love the song "Burn"

As of today (Sunday) only 55 more days until Disneyworld!  I’m so excited! 

And I have other BIG HUGE ENORMOUS news!  If everything works out, I will be going to IRELAND next April!  One of my life long dreams will finally be fulfilled!  I will be going with Danielle and my friend, Ingrid.  The only thing I am not looking forward to is flying over the ocean, but believe me, I will get over it! 

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tv show- Full House (loved Charles in Charge)
movie- Beaches (liked Autum in NY, but it was too depressing!)
song- "Dust On The Wind"- Kansas
cd- The best of Kansas

funny moment- from Perfect Stragers. A very pregnant frind of Balki’s was staying with him and Larry and one night she went into labor, and Larry and Balki were nervous wrecks, running around bumping into things and tripping over things.  Balki called the hospital and said, "Hello, hospital?  Baby is coming!" To which Larry grabbed the phone from Balki and said "You just can’t call the hospital and say ‘baby is coming!’.  Look, I’ll talk to them."  To which he says into the reciever, "Hello hospital?  The baby is coming!" and hung up the phone.

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well, that’s it for now.  See you on Monday!  Take care and God bless!

Michele

November 24, 2008

a - 07 september 2001

Filed under: from-anne, guys

From: Anne
Sent: Friday, September 07, 2001 3:13 PM
Subject: What big teeth they had!

Hi Michele!

Those were some big dinos! That’s the first Jurassic Park that I’ve seen in the theatre - what an experience. I was wishing again that I had gone to see the Mummy Returns in a theatre. In JP III there was only one other couple and me - I was glad. I got there a little late and was afraid that I would be stuck on the first row. So is Sam Neil the one that played Dr. Grant? I did think he looked a little old, but that’s okay. I like his JP character  - I really, really like a smart guy! (And a tall guy . . .  and a manly-lookin’, loin-cloth wearin’, arm-band sportin’ fine specimen of a hunky guy!)

Yesterday I also had time before the gig to do my homework that isn’t due until Wednesday. That is excellent because I’m working both days this weekend. I also went to scan that picture of Darrell. It was taken during my much longer, semi-permed hair state.

So you went to see The Others? I believe there was a trailer for that one before JP III started playing. I thought that was Nicole Kidman; I didn’t catch the name of the movie. I confess, it’s because I was looking away from the spookiness. Did you say it was more suspenseful than slasherly? I think I would like that - I really want to see What Lies Beneath, but I haven’t got off my butt and done it yet.

And you are so right about Tom Cruise! That’s the same situation you mentioned before with people who have a really great spouse and don’t even realize it or don’t care. It is positively maddening: we can’t find even one good person and they just throw a great one away. I don’t know about you but I feel good to know of a couple, especially a couple like them who has been together a while and is sticking together. I feel a bit bad when I read about all of the divorces in Hollywood. How lightly they take marriage! Maybe I shouldn’t say that about all of them, but when someone is on their fourth marriage I wonder, "Why even bother with marriage?"

Well, I got my first response from that crossdaily site - some guy from Australia who is looking for a "marriage partner" wrote one short sentence that he would like to know me more. Men of few words are said to be the best men, but not when you only have a letter to try to get to know them! I’d like to know more about him. I’ll write back to him in a few days and send him a little info. I wonder if he has that fabulous Australian accent . . . As I said, I’m really doubtful that I will meet anyone good that way but it’ll be a very interesting experiment. Worst case scenario maybe I can write an article or a paper based on the ordeal.

Oh, I can definitely relate to the "will I ever find someone?" frustrations. I try not to focus on it, but it’s really tough when people with great relationships are all around me. Sometimes I am almost overwhelmed by wanting someone. Other - happier - times I am content to wait knowing how good it is going to be.

Re: the situation with Danielle and her just "hanging out" with Brian instead of going out with all of you. I’ve been where she is, and - speaking for myself - I wish I hadn’t focused so much on spending one time with one guy. It got to the point where I was very upset when he decided he didn’t want to hang out with me as much as we used to. I think maybe he’d have wanted me more if I wasn’t so available. But no one could have told me that at the time; I wouldn’t have listened. Hanging out with him was all I wanted to do; everyone else was like "been there, done that." Anyway, how long has she known this guy? What does he do?

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TV - Charles in Charge (love The Facts Of Life)
Movie - Autumn in New York
Song - Love at First Sight by Styx (love Lady Marmalade)
CD - ?

Funny moment - from Charles in Charge, Buddy (his friend) was trying to talk Charles into going to see some sorority girls play "waterball" and Charles was saying that he couldn’t go. Buddy- "But it’s Gamma-Gamma-Gamma!" Charles- "I can’t! I can’t! I can’t!"

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That’s it for today. Have a great weekend too! God bless!
Anne

PS - I am sending that picture of Darrell that I’ve been mentioning. From the left is Darrell, ***** (boss #1), ***** (boss#2 and *****’s husband), and me.

November 23, 2008

m - 07 september 2001

Filed under: from-michele, guys, work, feelings

From: Michele
Sent: Friday, September 07, 2001 6:59 AM
Subject: This week IM going to have the four day weekend!

Hi Anne!

How are you this lovely Friday morning?  Me?  Well, you know that saying "I have good news and I have bad news?"  Well here’s my good and bad "news" for today:  Good-I have a four day weekend!  Yahoo!  Bad-I just started my period so I’ll probably have cramps and nasty emotional mood swings on those days!  Good- The Alabama concert is tomorrow night! Yee-haw!  Bad- I just started my period so I’ll probably have cramps ….(you get my point!)  Oh, the price we women have to pay!

Kristen said her friend is doing better.  That’s good.  Nora is having her surgery in January. I don’t know why she’s waiting so long. I asked her if it was okay for her to wait so long and she told me that her doctor told her that it was ok.  I think part of the reason why she’s waiting is becacause she’s scared.  She told me that she was in so much pain when she was in the recovery room after her first surgery, and her doctor told her that this time the pain is going to be a lot worse.  I can’t help to keep on thinking back to the whole fiasco of the money being stolen (I told you about that, didn’t I?) and how Nora had to go back to work almost a month early when she should have been resting.  Maybe this is the reason why she has to have her surgery redone.  If that is the reason and if something happens to her this time- I will never forgive Pat and Amy.  I wonder how in the world can they live with themselves?  Thank you for keeping Nora in your prayers.

So, did you see Jurassic Park 3?  What did you think of it?  We’re you on the edge of your seat, biting your nails, trying not to scream like I was?  Isn’t Sam Neil to die for?  His voice!  I also love his eyes.  Do you think I give a rat’s ass that he’s in his late forites/early fifties?  Heck no!

Last night Shelly and I went to the movies.  We saw The Others.  Excellent movie.  It’s scary, but not on the lines of those stupid teen slasher movies.  It was more scary along the lines of The Sixth Sense and What Lies Beneath.  I think Nicole Kidman is beautiful.  Tom Cruise is such a moron for leaving her.  Men-I don’t know where the heck their brains are sometimes!

I had checked out that crossdaily website.  And I have thought about placing an ad in the pen pals section.  I liked the ad you placed.  You don’t sound desperate at all.  Good luck to you with it.  I want to place an ad, but I just feel something stopping me.  I just think that going through a dating service or  something like that goes against everything I believe in.  And I admire you for being braver than I.

Danielle went out with Brian again last night.  Let me ask you if I’m being selfish or blowing things out of porportion- When I was at work, Shelly suggested that we go to the movies.  Kristen was going to go to, but she later found out she had to pick her sister up from soccer practice.  Anyway, we were going to the 9:30 show.  IT was around 4 and I called Danielle.  I asked her if she and Brian were still going out.  "Yes".  me-"what time?"  her-"around six." me-"where are you going?"  her-"I think just over to his house." me-"are you eating dinner there?"  "no, I think we’re just going to hang out."  SO then I asked her if she would like to go to the movies with us.  I mean, she could "hang out" with Brian for a few hours, come home and go to the movies with me, Kristen and Shelly.  But she said no.  I don’t know, I got kinda angry, even though I just said "fine."  So of course when I got home from the movies I raved to her about how good it was.  "You should had came with us," I told her.  This is so awful for me to say (but I know I can be honest with you) but if Brain would break up with her- I would feel relieved.  God, looking back at that sentence, I feel like such a cretin!  It’s just that I get so scared that I’ll never meet anyone!  Last night I just stared crying.  I couldn’t help it.  My mom, who can be so clueless sometimes asks "What are you crying for?".  I didn’t even bother with a respose.  If she can’t understand the pain and loniness I am facing right now, the confusion and how I can’t understand what God is doing here, why should I even have to explain it?  I try to hide my broken heart.  I don’t want others to see my weakness.  I want everyone to think that my life is just hunky-dory, and for the most part it is.  I just don’t want anyone to pity me.  You are one of the few people who I can talk to about this.  I think it’s because you are facing the same thing so I know you understand what I’m going through.

 

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>TV - The Facts Of Life (Loved step by step!)
>Movie - The Others
>Song - Lady Marmalade- Mya, Pink, Lil’ Kim and Christina Agularia (or however you spell her name!)
>CD - Supertramp-Breakfast In America

>Funny moment- from The Golden GIrls- Dorothy and Rose were talking about ’spanish fly’ and rose had no idea what it was.  Dorthy explained that it wasn’t a fly, but a beetle.  Rose asks,  "Well, how do you knw it’s Spanish?"  A fed up Dorothy barks, "Because it’s wearing a little sambraro, ROse!"  (I loved that line in Mama’s Family- "usually when the phone rings I  just run around in circles yelling ‘What’ll I do?  What’ll I do?’" )
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>That’s it for now.  Have a great weekend!  God bless!

Michele

November 21, 2008

a - 06 september 2001

Filed under: from-anne, guys

From: Anne
Sent: Thursday, September 06, 2001 2:19 PM
Subject: I’m gonna go for it!

Hi, Michele!

Poor Kristen: something like that would be a literal nightmare! How is her friend doing? Also, when is Nora’s surgery going to be? I will keep her in my prayers.

I have a nine pm counting gig tonight, so I’ll be hanging out in town until then. I plan to get something to eat and go see Jurassic Park III. I also plan to go to the college and scan that pic of Darrell. If I have any time beyond that I’ll work on some homework.

In other news, I have been a member of a "Christian Friendship" web site - www.crossdaily.com - since May. The membership is free and you can tell what sort of "relationship" you’re looking for such as dating, marriage, pen pal, or friendship. I had selected "friendship only" but I hardly ever received any emails. Today I switched it to "long-term dating." I included this paragraph in the "what I’m looking for" section of the questionnaire:

"I am looking for a good Christian man who is in the Huntsville area or pretty close to it. I like a guy with a positive attitude who is easygoing and fun. It would be great if he is close to my age (within five or so years) and has a good career. Ideally, we could chat by email and get to know each other a bit then see where it goes from there."

What do you think? I wanted to sound non-desperate yet approachable. I’ll see what kind of response that brings in. (I thought of including "he should closely resemble Arnold Vosloo" but I thought that would severely limit the responses.) I’m not holding my breath that I’ll have much response from that site - since I joined only one person from the Huntsville area wrote to me when I was looking for friends and he disappeared after a few emails. Oh well - nothing to lose right? I’ll let you know how it goes. If you want to join, it’s free like I said. The only catch is that the free membership people can only send and receive one email a day - you use their site instead of your own email to contact other members initially. You need a screen name - I’m "looloobelle" because I didn’t want to be "Anne575."

The possibility of meeting someone great is exciting, but I’m also leery. I can just imagine the lame, awkward responses I’ll get! And can you imagine actually meeting for the equivalent of a blind date. Like I keep saying, "We’ll see!"

I’m going to think about who I could ask at church about this situation. The two women that I really felt I could talk to have left our church to go elsewhere. It is so tough to find someone that understands. I’m like you again (what a surprise!) in that I can’t talk to my family. They probably wouldn’t listen anyway. I’d love to talk to someone who met someone like people do in the movies; I’d love for that someone to tell me that it is possible! That’s another thing about this crossdaily site - it is the exact opposite of the way I want to meet The One. I wonder if I’ll look at the people who respond in the same way I felt when Chell was trying to set me up with some unknown geek.

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TV - Step by Step
Movie -  Broken Arrow
Song - Crush by Jennifer Page
CD - ?
Funny moment- from Mama’s Family. MaMa was applying for a job at a local travel agency and the guy said something like, "and you can answer the phone?" Mama replied sarcastically, "No, when it rings at my house I usually run around in circles, yelling ‘What do I do? What do I do?’ "

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That’s it for now. Talk to you later! God bless!
Anne

November 20, 2008

m - 06 september 2001

Filed under: from-michele, guys, work

From: Michele
Sent: Thursday, September 06, 2001 2:26 AM
Subject: Bonjour, Mademoiselle!

Hi Anne!

No, Kristen wasn’t fired.  She told me what happened.  Sunday night, she and a guy friend of hers (not her boyfriend) were walking down the street and apparently they were "jumped" by this group of guys her friend didn’t get along with.  Other than a few nasty bruises on her arms, she wasn’t hurt, but they sprayed pepper spray into her friend’s eyes and they beat him up.  Kristen went to the hospital with him and she fell asleep there.  When she woke up it was monday morning.  I want to believe her.  After all, if she was lying, how did she get those bruises?  She is an excellent worker.  Nora let it go this time, but she told her that if it happened again, she’ll have to let her go.

Yes, Arnold is ruining other men for me as well!  Do you know what’s really sad?  If Arnold was just a regular shmoe who lived in my neighboorhood and was unattached, I don’t think I would be so attracted to him.  You know, that whole concept of you want what you can’t have?  Well, I guess I would be attracted to him a litte bit!  I think I like him the most right now, with Mitch Pileggi coming in a very very close second!

I’m glad you have a good attitude about your job.  I’m not worried about losing my job either.  I mean, if worse came to worse and my store closed its doors, I can always go somewhere else.  There’s always a "Help Wanted" sign hanging up somewhere.

Oh my gosh Anne, when you told me how you got angry at your mom and Sara (how they were talking when you were trying to talk)- that’s me!  Are you sure we weren’t twins seperated at birth??  That’s a pet peeve of mine too- people not listening.  I’ll be talking to my mom, and I know she isn’t paying attention to me, so I’ll add something really off the wall like, "And I’m pregnant with Mel Gibson’s baby", to which she’ll reply absentmindly, "that’s nice".  Talk about seeing red!!  Or I’ll be telling her something and then five minutes later she’ll ask me a question pertaining to what I just said.  Im like, "Mom, I just told you five minutes ago …"  I wonder, why do I even bother?

So, I’m not the only one who gets in that lonely crappy mood?  Who doubts God sometimes?  What a relief!  And you go to a singles group too!  Why isn’t God helping us out?!  I saw something on tv about a woman’s biological clock and how the mid twenties to early thirties is just the right age for a woman to have a baby.  Well, I’m not going to try to have a baby as soon as I get married.  I want to enjoy a few years with my husband.  So what if I don’t get married until I’m  31 or 32.  I might not have my first baby until I’m maybe 35 or 36.  I wanted to scream at the tv- "It’s not my fault I haven’t found anyone yet!  It’s not my fault that men today are wimps and I have values and I won’t just date anyone!"  And then sometimes I think the most awful thought.  A thought so horrible I cringe when I think about it.  What if?  What if it is in God’s plan for me to never marry?  I mean, there is no law anywhere that says I have to.  There’s no verse in the Bible that says, "Every person will get married."  How can I handle that?  Does God really expect me to be a virgin for the rest of my life?  I mean, hello, God?  I am a woman!  I have desires and needs!  Being 28 and a virgin is difficult enough, but to think of being 35 …38…40 and never having sex?  I don’t know if I can do it!  I just don’t know what to do!  And the fact that Danielle is dating someone right now doesn’t make it any easier.  I look at her and think "Why her and not me?"  I mean, I’m so ready to get married.  Settle down.  live in a cute little house and be the doting housewife and someday have kids.  Danielle is the total opposite of me. She’s more business minded.  Her goals are more carrear  minded.  I know God doesn’t make mistakes, but I almost feel as if my prayer requests and Danielle’s prayer requests have been swaped and God is answering my prayers, but he’s giving them to Danielle!

I’m sorry for moping.  I know there is more to life than dating and romance and all that, so why does it seem like there isn’t?  And while I’ve been so selfishly thinking about me, me, me, Nora told me yesterday that she’s going to have to be operated on again.  I feel so bad for her!  Anne, if you get a chance, could you keep her in your prayers?  I just wish she could just get better!  Nora is such a nice person.  it isn’t fair that someone like her has to suffer at all!

One more thing about romance and all that- it seems that you are involved in the Church more than I am.  Is there anyone you can talk to?  Ask about what they think about dating services and how people like you and I are ever going to meet anyone?  I don’t even mind if you mention me.  I would love to ask someone, but I don’t know who I could talk to.  I don’t think I could talk to anyone in my family because their attitude would be, "sure join a dating service" or" if you see someone you like, don’t wait for him to make the first move."  They just don’t understand.  I want it to be like it is in the movies.  Some enchanted evening … across a crowded room.  Our eyes lock and it’s like … magic. We just know that we are to spend the rest of our lives together. Is that even possible?  Do I even bother to hope?

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>TV - I Love Lucy
>Movie -Harry and the Hendersons
>Song -Turn Around by Enigma
>CD - Connie Dover-Somebody
>

Funny moment- from Mama’s Family.  Naomi wanted to become a stewardess and mama was helping her prepare for her big test.  They had the living room set up like the inside of an airplane. Naomi tied Mama to the chair she was sitting in, simulating a seat belt.  Naomi began sauntering down the asile and Mama commented, "Is that the way you plan to walk today during your test?"  "There is nothing wrong with the way I walk!"  Mama comments, "Not if you want to look like a piegon in heat!"

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questions answered

> Feel like taking some time off from questions? sure . . . maybe we could stockpile some and ask them later . . .?   Good idea!
>
> or maybe just one question . . . If you found out you were going to lose your job what would you do?   Well, it depended on how I lost my job.  If I was fired unfairly, I think I would be hurt and bitter.  But if the store closed down, that would be a different story all together.  I would miss my co-workers and maybe take a few weeks to relax and get my bearings.  Then I would start looking for another job.

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that’s it for now!  Take care and God bless!

Michele

November 19, 2008

a - 05 september 2001

From: Anne
Sent: Wednesday, September 05, 2001 4:14 PM
Subject: Will work for Fig Newtons!

Hi, Michele!

Sounds like quite an ordeal trying to replace Kristen! Did you ever find out why she didn’t show up? And if she showed up the next day, was she fired?

Arnold stripping for you and me - what a lovely mental picture! I agree that although he doesn’t have washboard abs, he is pretty close to perfect. He is very manly and that is VERY good! As I said, he is ruining other men for me. Even Keanu, who is pretty fit in most of his movies and tall, which I really like. I think of him standing next to Arnold (that’s right - in his Mummy outfit) and I think, "Keanu who?"

That’s right, the preacher’s son is named John Inman, but believe me that he is in no way like the Mr. Humphries guy. I never mentioned Are You Being Served to him - although that would’ve been an interesting conversation starter.

Remember I told you a while back that my company here was expecting funding cuts? Well, yesterday they told our Business guy, Rocky, to only come in when they call him. In other words, I won’t look for him around here any time soon. They told me this morning that I shouldn’t worry about my job. Oh, I don’t. Maybe I will start working on an updated resume though.

In other news, I got angry at my mom and sis yesterday. I was eating supper and they were in the kitchen; we were all just hanging out. My sister was asking me about my day - I was chewing so I was giving short answers. Finally I start to launch into a (short) story and I see that my sister is talking quietly to my mother - that’s right while I’m talking. And what was so urgent as to require this rudeness? She was telling Mom where a fly had landed so Mom could swat it. I said, "never mind" and went back to chewing. I said very little to them for the rest of the day. Maybe that’s a little (okay a lot) childish on my part, but they should know that people not listening to me is my biggest pet peeve. Plus she had just asked about my day!

So last night before bed I was feeling lonely and crappy. This soon led to feelings of self-pity and a standard self-pity cry "I am so ugly that I will never find the One!" As I sit and think about it lately the odds of meeting and finding someone really great seem astronomical, and not in my favor I might add. I’ve had exactly the same thoughts as you about "taking matters into my own hands" - namely what if I mess it up? I also don’t really go anywhere to meet good guys (keepers, you could say). Should I go someplace new? Try some on-line service? Is it just not my time? If it isn’t my time, when will it be ?! If the Lord is testing my patience, I think I’m failing!

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TV -  Jennifer Slept Here
Movie -Batteries Not Included 
Song -Back to Good by Matchbox 20
CD - ?

funny moment- from Keeping Up Appearances. Hyacinth and Richard are at her sister’s very run-down place to visit Hyacinth’s dad. With a look of disdain at the place, Hyacinth says to Richard, "Poor Daddy. I hate for him to live here. I’d have him at home with us if he didn’t slop his cocoa."
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questions answered

how many rooms does your house have?- eleven.   den, foyer (does that count?), living room, dining room, kitchen, four bedrooms and two bathrooms.  Plus an attic.

when you brush your teeth, do you floss and use mouthwash as well- I floss when I brush my teeth in the evening - my dentist constantly nags me about flossing. Last time I actually received a little praise: "you’re doing a *little* better with the flossing." Thanks so much!

ever did anything or said anything embarrassing in front of one of your crushes?- I sang badly in front of John (and a room full of other people who weren’t my crushes.)

ever stumped on asking questions- definitely! I’ll only think of good ones when I can’t write them down and then of course I don’t remember them!
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New Questions

Feel like taking some time off from questions? sure . . . maybe we could stockpile some and ask them later . . .?

or maybe just one question . . . If you found out you were going to lose your job what would you do? Celebrate! Just kidding (?) - I would start looking again, but this time I’d really concentrate on finding something in my field of interest! I might take another part-time job in the meantime to meet expenses. (Let’s face it, the ***** one wouldn’t cover my gasoline bill!)
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That’s it for today. Talk to you soon! God bless!
Anne

"Do not let what you can’t do interfere with what you can." John Wooten (not sure of the name)

November 18, 2008

m - 04 september 2001

Filed under: from-michele, guys, work

From: Michele
Sent: Tuesday, September 04, 2001 9:39 PM
Subject: I had an interesting Labor Day…

Hi Anne!

Glad you had a nice loooong weekend.  I had a quite interesting Labor Day.  Well, it was supposed to be me and Kristen working 9:30-5.  Anyway, I was arrived at the store first.  Probaly around 9:20.  I like to get there a few minutes early to get myself situated.  Anyway time is ticking away and Kristen hasn’t shown up yet.  At first I wasn’t worried.  I figured, maybe she was caught in traffic, or maybe she was running a few minutes behind.  No big deal.  ok, about 9:50, I was calmly panicing (what an oxymoron!).  First I called Kristen’s house.  Her mom answered the phone and when I told her that I worked with Kristen she said, "She spent the night with friends and I’m trying to get ahold of her.  Can I call you back?"  Sure, I mean, it’s not the mom’s fault that Kristen hasn’t shown up yet.  Next I called Nora, who (understandably) wasn’t happy at all.  She asked me, "Do you think you can open by yourself?  Are you afraid?"  I said, "I think I can do it, after all it’s probably going to be dead today but what if someone wants to buy a Precious Moments or something and I have to go in the back?"  (my fear would be someone walking out with stuff)  Nora said, "Don’t worry about it.  There’s nothing you can do."  Then she told me that if Kristen didn’t show up by 10:30, for me to just call around and see if someone could come in.  So I unlocked the door …. and waited.  I waited on about 7 customers before 10:30.  Oh, Kristens mom did call back around 10:10.  She said she couldn’t get a hold of her and apologized profusely.  I could tell she was embarassed.  But that wasn’t her fault.  Anyway, I started calling around.  I didn’t have too many people to call.  Ed, Shelly and Cindy were out of town, and yesterday was Mary’s only day off, which left Sue, Wendy and Audrey, and I rather work alone than work with Audrey!  So, first I called Sue and she had plans.  So next I called Wendy.  Here’s how the conversation went:  Me-"Hi Wendy, this is Michele."  W-"Hi, Michele."  M-"I need to ask you a huge favor."  W-"Ok."  M-"Kristen was supposed to work this morning and she never showed up.  I’m here by myself."   W-"Aww."  M-"Do you think you could come in?"  W-"Well …. ok.  What time are we open until?"   M-"Five"  W-"Five?!  You better remember this, Michele! (laughs)"  M-"Oh, thank you so much!"  Wendy didn’t get to the store until 12, so I spent two whole hours there by myself.  I must say that I am very proud of myself that I remained (for the most part) calm during that crisis!

Oh, I can’t stand telemarketers!  I mean, "what part of ‘I’m not interested’ don’t you understand!"  That’s why we hardly answer our phone anymore, we just leave the answering machine on and pick it up if it’s someone we want to talk to.  Usually if it’s a hang up, it’s probably a telemarketer.  My mom says once, "No, thank you, I’m not interested,"  and if they persist with their sales pitch, she’ll simply hang up the phone on them.

I have two four words that go so well together, tell me what do ya think- Arnod Vosloo and male stripper?  A few more words added to that- private party for Anne and Michele?  Drool!  Growl!  Sigh!  Moan!  Yes, his physique is fa-bu-licious!  I like his body so much because he doesn’t have that "perfect washboard abs body beautiful" kind of body.  I mean, don’t get me wrong!  He’s perfect, because he isn’t "perfect"!  Dear lord, he has a nice chest!  He has a nice, everything!

I havn’t seen Miss Congeniality yet.  I’ve seen the last 1/2 hour of Speed and I love Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure.  I like Sandra Bullock.  Oh gosh, there was one movie she was in, the name escapes me.  I think Harry Connick jr was in it too.  She played a divorced woman who moves back to her home town with her daughter.  It was more of a drama, it was very good.   This is going to drive me crazy!  If you know what movie I’m talking about- please tell me the title! 

Yes, Keanu is cute.  Not really my type, but if a man who looked like him was interested in me, I wouldn’t be upset!

Danielle went out with Brian again.  He even got her a dozen roses.  Sigh.  Don’t feel like this, Michele!  I’m really starting to get impatient!  I was on the verge the other day of signing up on one of those computer dating services!  I just … I want to trust God completely about my love life, but I just feel He’s moving too slow for me!  I get frustrated and scared and I wonder "Where am I going to meet anybody?  How am I going to meet anybody?"  I mean, I work almost 40 hours a week and when I’m not working, all I want to do is stay home and relax!  And the few times I do go out, I haven’t run into anyone.  I’ve just about given up on meeting anyone at work (most men who come into ***** are either married, have a girlfriend or gay).  And I’m so scared that if I do "take matters into my own hands"  I’ll really screw things up! I just wish God would help me out a little!  Give me some kind of sign or clue!  I wish he’d whisper in my future husband’s ear tomorrow morning, "go to the ***** store!"  I told Danielle to ask Brian if he knew any single guys who were looking for a nice girl!  I’m serious!  "Yes, I have a friend who’s single and looking.  He kind of looks like that actor who was The Mummy …"  yeah, only in my dreams!! (lol)

Too bad the preacher’s soon is moving. Hey, isn’t his name John Inman?  Have you ever pointed that out to him?  That has to be the worst- liking someone and they don’t return the feelings.  I feel that any woman who is married to a "great guy"  has no right to ever be miserable!!  Could you imagine being married to a handsome, hardworking man of God who is devoted to making you happy?  It makes me angry that some wives don’t even appreciate their husbands who are such men!  Let me reverse that with this example:  my cousin, Cara is about 37.  She is beautiful, built nice and has a great personality and she dotes on her two sons, Jamie (11) and Michael (5).  Anyway, about three years ago, her husband, Jim left her.  He just didn’t want to be married anymore!  She was the equalivant to a "great guy".  She was faithful and dedicated to her husband and her children.  What a slimeball.  Poor Jamie is heartbroken over it.  That song "The Promise" by Cindy Morgan reminds me of Cara and her children.  The one good thing that has come out of all of this is that it brought Cara closer to God. 

When I see all the divorces in my family, and all the relationships that are less than passionate, sometimes I wonder if my singleness truly is a gift.  I mean, I just don’t want to go out on a date here and there now to "tide me over" before I meet Mr. Right- I just want to be with one man for all of my life!  I "took matters into my hands" so to speak reguarding Harry and look where it got me.  I think God had that happen to teach me a lesson.  And even though I’m sometimes lonely and sometimes jealous, I think that being married to the wrong person is a thousand times worse!

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> TV - Saturday Night Live
> Movie - Dead Again
> Song - "The Promise" Cindy Morgan
> CD - Listen -Cindy Morgan
>
> funny moment- from The Golden Girls- Dorothy’s friend Jean was visiting .  Jean was a lesbian and she fell for Rose.  Anyway, when Blanche found out, she threw a fit.  "I don’t believe it!  I just don’t believe it!  To think Jean would prefer Rose over me?!"

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questions answered!

> Do you ever get so mad that you literally can’t see straight? Yes.  LIke when I had to deal with "Miss Bridge tallies" on Saturday.  Not too many customers make me that mad, but when they do, watch out!!

>

> If you went to see a male stripper, do you think you’d tuck a dollar bill (or a five, ten, etc.) in his g-string? If I was with a large group of very outgoing women, I probably would at their encouragement but I’d be blushing bright red. I blush as I sit here and picture the scene - this buff, oiled up guy is gyrating right in front of me in the smallest briefs ever, and I’m all giggly and can’t even hardly look directly at him. me too!!
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> Would you ever date a guy who was a stripper? I think this goes back to my "wouldn’t want to date a super-handsome" guy philosophy, so I don’t think I would. I can imagine him doing his thang at a party full of drunk women … hello recipe for disaster!  same here!  Although I heard male strippers are supposed to be really romantic and sensative men!
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new questions

how many rooms does your house have?- six.  living room, dining room, kitchen, two bedrooms and one bathroom.  Plus there’s the basement.

when you brush your teeth, do you floss and use mouthwash as well- sometimes, but most of the time I’ll just brush my teeth.

ever did anything or said anything embarrassing in front of one of your crushes?-  Yes!  about six years ago, when I was working at *****, I had waited on Bob (not produce).  Anyway, while I was ringing him out, he zipped up his jacket.  Well, my gaze immeadiately lowered to his … well, you know!  I thought he was zippering his pants!  He caught me looking and I know I must have had this really wierd look on my face!  I wanted to crawl under the counter and disappear!  To give him credit, he was very sweet about it.  He acted like he didn’t see me looking.  Needles to say, the next time I waited on him, he zipped his jacket very slowly and quietly!

ever stumped on asking questions- yes, like right now!
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well, that’s it for today!  Till next time, take care and God bless!

Michele

November 17, 2008

a - 04 september 2001

Filed under: from-anne, guys, work

From: Anne
Sent: Tuesday, September 04, 2001 3:20 PM
Subject: The man is mine . . . (lol) in my dreams!

Hi Michele!

I had a perfectly fine time off. I accomplished my homework early Saturday morning so it wasn’t hanging over my head all weekend. My favorite cousin - Jennifer - came over with her mother to pick up an old Bible that belonged to my grandfather. Jennifer is about my sister’s age, but she and I have a lot in common. Well she teaches high school, so we definitely don’t have that in common. We used to hang out and write to each other a few years ago but we drifted apart. She mentioned going "some time" to a singles outing that a local church has - she offered to take me with. Cool!

What could be worse than the Tuesday that is the Monday after a long weekend? I guess not having a long weekend is worse, huh? Or a weekend with an annoying old biddy squawking about bridge tallies - that is definitely worse! UNBELIEVABLE! WHY do people have to be like that?! It’s so true that one jerk can ruin your whole day. Today some telemarketer called for my boss who had just left for lunch. The caller said, with an edge in her voice, "well, I already left a message on Friday." She acted like she didn’t want to leave another message with me, then she closed with "Could I try back in a few hours?" It’s like, "Did you even consider that she doesn’t want whatever lame product you’re trying to pawn off on her?" I’m going to say something to that effect next time: "I gave her the message - I guess she isn’t interested."

On to a more pleasant subject - Arnold! Sadly I haven’t had another cool dream about him. Drag. I have been meaning to start a dream journal - if I have a really memorable one I’ll write it in my journal. Re: the picture of me and AV, I thought you’d like that! I’m trying to learn to use some picture editing software that is one this computer. The pic might’ve worked better if I used a digital picture of me. I’ll try that next time. Maybe next time I’ll be kissing him! Hahahahaha! The more I think of Mr. Vosloo, the better he looks! He has practically ruined all other men for me because no one else seems to have his faboo physique. And to think I wouldn’t have even watched The Mummy if you hadn’t told me about it and how dang fine he is! It was a good movie too; I can’t wait to see the sequel!

Speaking of movies, I rented Miss Congeniality over the weekend. I thought it was just a little predictable but very good. I also watched the tapes that I have of Speed and Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure. Keanu’s birthday was the 2nd so I was celebrating. Plus I saw the commercial for his new movie and I couldn’t get his beautiful smile out of my mind. I was telling my family how he is so wonderful and beautiful, but I’ve read some quotes from him and I think he’d be way too different (read "freaky") for us to really be together.

I also feel your pain about the green-eyed monster. I was going to write, "I’m glad Sara doesn’t go out." then I thought, "Whoa, isn’t that terrible." Well, it’s true. I get jealous of the wives of those great catch guys. (I think we’ve discussed this before.) I am truly amazed that they can get those guys to marry them.

Oh yeah - our preacher is moving back to Oklahoma so our church will be looking for a new pastor. Of course, the preacher’s cute son will be going with him. Depressed sigh. I guess he wasn’t my soul mate after all. I was thinking about that before - we talked about how long it should take a guy that likes you to ask you out. Well I’ve know the preacher’s son John for years, albeit casually, and he couldn’t at any point work up the nerve to ask me out? One time in a church service, I was sitting near the back left side of the room and he was at the front right side and I happen to look over and he was turned around looking at me. From that I really felt like he was at least a little interested in me. But we only recently got to where we could say "good morning" in class. Writing that previous line, I was suddenly sad again about the loss of what might have been. Depressed sigh. I was walking around all weekend singing, "Lying to Myself" by David Cassidy.

Look at me moping over someone I never really had. Silly girl! The point I was trying to get to was that he must not have been the one after all.

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TV - The Partridge Family
Movie - Miss Congeniality (love Jurassic Park - plan to see III this week.)
Song - "Lying to Myself" by David Cassidy
CD - ?

Funny Moment- From Are You Being Served? The gang was trying to fake a wedding of Mrs. Slocombe and Mr. Humphries for the benefit of Mrs. S’s wealthy uncle and they were trying to pass off Mr H as being a Greek. Mr. Tebbs was pretending to be a Greek Orthodox minister. As he is "performing the ceremony" there is a loud chanting record playing, Mrs S is wailing loudly over being stood up by the real groom, Mr. H tries to wail in tune to cover up Mrs S’s sobbing. Mr. Tebbs is doing a bunch of cooky things and saying a bunch of gibberish. That was the episode they showed this weekend - it was a very funny scene!

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Questions Answered

would you elope?- I would, but I’d want my mom and sis to be there. (I know a young couple that eloped to a dream wedding in Jamaica. Now that would be awesome!)

have you ever seen male strippers?- no, but I’ve always been curious about it! ditto!

do you think you are going to be more conservative or adventurous with your husband (sex wise)- More adventurous definitely! But I will also draw the line at some things!

do you kiss your pets?- not usually - but remember that they stay outside and only our Bo Bo comes near us.

what do you think of Halloween?  Satanic or just harmless fun?- I agree that it’s supposed to be fun.

Ever been on a hayride?- yes. many years ago: - maybe 20! I had a good time, as I recall.

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New Questions

Do you ever get so mad that you literally can’t see straight? Yes. I used to get mad at Sara like that. Now it happens when I’m PMS-y and my boss says something in her over-explaining, "Anne is so stupid." voice. (I was actually that ticked this morning.)

If you went to see a male stripper, do you think you’d tuck a dollar bill (or a five, ten, etc.) in his g-string? If I was with a large group of very outgoing women, I probably would at their encouragement but I’d be blushing bright red. I blush as I sit here and picture the scene - this buff, oiled up guy is gyrating right in front of me in the smallest briefs ever, and I’m all giggly and can’t even hardly look directly at him.

Would you ever date a guy who was a stripper? I think this goes back to my "wouldn’t want to date a super-handsome" guy philosophy, so I don’t think I would. I can imagine him doing his thang at a party full of drunk women … hello recipe for disaster!

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That’s it for today. Talk to you soon. God bless!
Anne

"So I’ll never feel your touch again. I’ll get used to it; hearts’ll break then mend. I’ll come bouncing back; you barely left a scratch on me. You were nothing but a little plaything, and your love bite was only a sting. Baby when you went, it hardly made a dent in me. It was just a flesh wound in my pride. It ain’t no tragedy that I can’t survive. I’m lying to myself every night. Without you baby nothin’s been right. No matter what I say, can’t make you go away. I’m lying to myself that’s the truth. It’s killing me being without you … I’m lying to myself. I don’t lie here, alone in this bed, broken record of your voice in my head ‘cause nothing that you said had any real effect on me. There’s not a thing that I would change; no not much only everything just to have you again …"

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