Chix Chat

From: Michele
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2001 9:59 AM
Subject: the wonders of the Wonderbra

Hi Anne!

Isn’t the Wonderbra wonderful?  Well, I have the miracle bra (Victoria’s Secret).  I’m um… pretty avergae and it just makes my bustline look nice.  I love Victoria’s Secret clothes.  They’re comfortable, feminine and sexy without being sleazy.

I’m sorry you’re losing some of your fire for Randy.  Maybe it’s better this way.  I mean, why make yourself sick pining over someone who may or may not be your destiny!  It’s better to have just a casual attitude about the whole thing. When he calls you for a date, then you can get excited!

What did I write in the guest book? Well, I just said how I think bald men are so sexy and manly and how I think Arnold Vosloo and Mitch Pileggi are two of the sexiest actors I know. Mike (that’s the guy who wrote to me) replied to my reply.  And I wrote back. Hmm… could this be the start of something?  I’m not saying anything!  Looking at what I wrote in the previous paragraph, I think I should take my own advice!

Anne, do you have a dvd player?  Also, I might sound like a total retard asking this, but do you know if you can play dvd’s on the computer?  There are some dvds I would love to get, but I don’t have a dvd player.  If I could just play them on my computer, that would be great.

I’m glad you thought you did well on your test.  When will you know what grade you got on it?

I am so glad you feel the same way I do about wanting our future husbands to be the spiritual leaders.  I am reading a book right now "Boy Meets Girl" (Joshua Harris) which is really helping me.  He also wrote "I kissed Dating Goodbye" which I read last year.  I have read a slew of books on relationships which have helped me.  I mean, we study and prepare for tests in school, why not study and prepare myself for marraige which is far more important than any test I’ve ever taken in school?

I think thats why there are so many divorces- many people don’t prepare for marraige properly.  There are so many things you need to think about before you even think about getting married.  Just because you "feel good" whenever your’re with someone, doesn’t mean jack squat in my book.  Yes, I’m thinking about Danielle as I am writing about this.  For her sake, I hope Brian is "the one" because if he isn’t, she’s setting herself up for a big fall.  Maybe that’s another reason why I want to wait until I’m married to kiss someone.  It’s my way of protecting myself.  I don’t want to kiss anyone but my future husband, but how will I know someone is my future husband?  I mean I could be dating a guy for six months and we might decide to go our separate ways.  If I kissed him, I would feel like I was cheating on my future husband.  Does that sound extreme?  And I know this is eaiser said than done because I know if a man I was attracted to asked me out, I would want him to kiss me!  This is why my future husband will feel the same way!

oh!  Another thing that gets on my nerves- When people say that you should have sex before you’re married because "what if you two aren’t sexually compatable?"  Say what?!  First of all, if I’m trusting God to write my love story, of course He isn’t going to make me end up with a man who is a dud in bed!  I know without question my future husband and I are going to have an amazing sex life!  And secondly I think everyone has sex pretty much the same way.  I mean the …ahem!… posistions may vary from couple to couple…. but I think the concept is the same.  I want to say to these losers who spout that "compatible" line, "Oh, so people who are compatable know this really great secret about sex?"  and thirdly- If you making love to a man you are passionately attracted to and he feels the same way about you- YOU ARE GOING TO BE COMPATABLE!!!

on that note, I’ll say bye for now!  Have a great weekend!  Take care and God Bless!

Michele