m - 7 october 2001
From: Michele
Sent: Sunday, October 07, 2001 6:21 PM
Subject: Nite Owl
Hi Anne!
Well, it’s Friday night and I can stay up as late as I want because I’m off work tomorrow! Woo-hoo! Danielle, Shelly and I are going to the movies tomorrow. We are going to see "Don’t Say A Word."
Thanx for answering my dvd/computer question. I don’t think my computer can play dvds 
. I might as well just go out and buy a dvd player. As far as waiting for when the price goes down- I think they have gone down. I think you can buy a dvd player now for about $150 or so. FYI- did you know the first VCRs were about $2,000?! Now you can buy one for less than $100.
Anne, your site is down again!! WHen I try to get into it, all I get is a black screen and on it in red letters is this: This site is under construction dedicated to "citing the best on the net." We are not affiliated with or endorse Yahoo corporation or their geocites subsidiary in any manner. If you are looking for geocites, please contact them directly. I wonder what the problem is!
RE: silly crush feelings fading. THat’s another reason why I feel you should date at least a year before considering marriage. I read somewhere (or maybe I saw on tv) that the first year of the relationship is when you’re on a "love high". The object of your affection is perfect. Everything he(or she) says or does just thrills you to death. It’s biological. You know a chemical reaction. After a year, the "high" wears off. Now, if you truly love the person, the feelings will still be there. But if it was just a physical attraction, then well … if you went ahead after a few months of dating and got married, you’re screwed.
I like what that bookmark says: "Chose only a date who would make a good mate." It’s true. Every person you go out with is a potential mate. I used to think, "well, what’s the big deal if I went out on one date with someone who I couldn’t see myself marrying?" It is a big deal! I felt the same way about Chaz as you did about Ray (I’ll prove everyone wrong). even though my situation is a bit different because Chaz and I never went out. I used to get really annoyed at God. "Come on, God. Just one date with Chaz. That’s all I want. What’s it going to hurt?" I reasoned. I know now why God said no to me. First of all, I know myself and I wouldn’t have been satisfied with just one date. I tried to "reason" to God that all I wanted was to be Chaz’s friend, and while that was true God also knew I was wildly attracted to Chaz. Secondly, as Chell would put it, "Why would I waste my time?" Even though Chaz was friendly with me and respected me, he wasn’t a Christian and had nothing to offer me. Chaz was mostly a physical reaction. I know my husband is going to evoke a physical, spiritual and emotional reaction.
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Hi again! It’s now Sunday evening. Sorry I stopped so abruptly before. I did see Dont’ Say A Word yesterday. Excellent movie! It was one of those tense, edge of your seat suspense movies. Michael Douglas is an excellet actor.
Well, war has begun over in Afghanastain (sp?) I don’t want to talk about it too much. . I’m praying for all the Americans overseas. The Emmys were cancelled tonight. A wise choice. I dont’ think anyone is in the mood to celebrate at the moment.
Hey! Arnold Vosloo was on E! News Daily the other day! Yeah, he and The Rock were in California promoting the dvd and video release of TMR! Dear lord he is so fu@*ing beautiful! (giggle, blush)
on that note, I’ll say bye for now! God bless! God bless the USA!
Michele
